It will never matter what someone who doesn’t like you says about you. The only thing that matters is if you like yourself. If you’re happy with the person you are, then embrace it. If you’re not, then take the steps necessary to become the person you want to be, not the person others think you should be. There’s nothing greater one can strive for than to be true to oneself, and being true to oneself does not include changing to suit the opinions of those who will always find fault with you, no matter how much you acquiesce to their demands. These people should be excised from your life as a surgeon would remove a tumor, for the end result of keeping either will be the same.